Today’s post will be short and sweet.
It’s been a long week and I’m really tired. But, my gratitude far outweighs the negatives.
Here are 5 things I’m thankful for from the past week:
- My job. I have a great job that’s been nothing but a blessing. Sure, there have been challenges, but those challenges have only helped me grow as a person.
- My second job. All of my late nights are paying off! Money for school is being provided through this opportunity.
- Deaf church. I have the privilege to serve in a wonderful church community. My signing would not be where it is today without the help of the church members.
- Comfortable shoes. I could tell a BIG difference in all my running around because I chose comfort over fashion. My feet haven’t been screaming, which is a gift in itself.
- A sense of humor. Being able to see the funny side of things makes life easier and more entertaining.
What are some things you’re thankful for?
I’m finding that a habit of thanksgiving is changing my perception of life’s challenges.
Let’s work out our gratitude muscle this week by taking 5 minutes a day to name 3 reasons we’re thankful.
The difference this single practice makes in our lives is huge.
Forgot an appointment? To pay a bill? A birthday?
Mess up on the job? At home?
Mean to your husband? Wife? Kid? Friend?
It wasn’t really your fault….no, no, no!
Just make an excuse and get out of it.
Need a few good ones?
- My computer crashed.
- I didn’t see your voicemail.
- Your email was in my junk mail.
- I forgot about our plans.
- The zombies made me do it (which is better than “The dog ate my homework.”)
All of these–minus the last one–are valid reasons for not doing something, but let’s be honest:
We’ve all used good, valid reasons to excuse poor, inexcusable behavior.
Accepting responsibility is taboo. No one likes to be wrong or admit their mistakes. I get it. I don’t like to be wrong or admit my mistakes.
Owning up to our shortcomings is on the list with filing taxes and going to the dentist.
If I don’t file my taxes, the IRS won’t pet my head and say, “No problem, Ms. Kennedy, we understand that this isn’t fun for you. Don’t worry about it, okay?”
If I don’t go to the dentist, my teeth will fall out and I’ll look like all the rednecks on the news….(this is why I choose to go to the dentist, btw. I have an irrational fear of being a stereotypical redneck.)
Shut down the excuse factory. Tell the truth. Face the consequences. And then move on.
You’ll never learn and grow from your shortcomings if you don’t admit you have them.