I simply can’t look at myself in a mirror without making funny faces.
And, this might seem a little strange, but I often find myself laughing at the funny faces I make. But then again, I often laugh at my own jokes. (Why would you tell a joke that you, yourself, wouldn’t laugh at?)
I’ll explain more about this odd introduction a bit later….
Mirrors are a lot like guns, money, and social status. They are not evil in and of themselves.
When you stand in front of a mirror, it’s not saying or implying anything.
All of those critical voices you hear as you stand in front of a mirror?
Wow, you’re looking pudgy!
Look at those wrinkles!
Did you get dressed in the dark?
Your sister, brother, mother’s cousin’s boyfriend looks better than you.
Yeah. The mirror is not saying those things. (And, if it is, run!!!!)
The voices we’re hearing sound a lot like ourselves or the critical people in our lives.
It’s true. The mirror is not our enemy.
We need to stop hating the mirror and start dealing with the real monster: Our self-perception.
Which brings me to why I make funny faces…..
It’s because I like who I am as a person and I’m not going to let negative chatter slow me down anymore. I get that there are some flaws, but guess what? That’s a part of life.
If you blame the mirror–or someone else–for your faulty perception nothing will change. Then you’ll just be angry and bitter, which will only make it worse.
Changing how you think about yourself? Now that changes everything.
So, next time you’re in front of a mirror and the voices start screaming, make a funny face and tell them to buzz off, okay?